Titus 2 (2) Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. (6) Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. (7) Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, (8) and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us.
The older I get the more responsibility I'm given as a man of God. In my early fifties (a grandpa) I realize the example that I need to be. Not only for my boys that now have families of their own, but for my granddaughter as well. (the next generation)
It's scary to me to think that the bible that my immediate family may read could be the example they see in me. A man in his fifties, getting older and expected to be the example of what a Christian would look and live like after many years of spiritual growth. For me, these verses deeply convict me. The Holy Spirit went right to work on me as I read them this morning and I've been thinking about this passage of scripture all day.
I love role models. People that live by their convictions. People that strive to be the best they can at life and love. People that put their faith in the Lord and as a result endure and press on through life's challenges with confidence, joy, and peace. What an example they are for me. What hope they give me.
Now can I say that I am that example for others, especially younger men? Am I the example of a man that has been steadfast in his faith and love? Have I been a good example of self-control? Have I been that role model that younger men can watch and observe and see the reflection of God in and through my actions, speech, and behavior?
Let's just say this... I know where I stand, and I know the work that God still needs to do in and through me. His spirit has spoken and I have heard. Now as the Spirit leads I pray for my obedience to follow and allow God to make me the man He wants me to be. After all, I'm being watched by people I love, people that I know look to me to be their role model. I also know that because of my age, my role, and my position, that I am already a role model for others. The question is; am I the right role model? A Godly role model? Am I an example of a man lead by God so that if anyone copied me or acted like me, they might be one step closer to God?
If you are asking yourself the same questions then pray along with me and let's pray for God to intervene in our lives, to conform us into His likeness as we seek to be used by Him.
Prayer: Dear heavenly Father. You know my heart, you know where I stand. You know I need help and I know I need you. Please guide me and direct my every step and help me to listen and obediently follow you. As a result, may I be the example you want me to be for others to see. It's in Jesus name I pray. Amen